Last summer, I started farming on a piece of land that I lease. It’s my first time doing this, and it’s been a rewarding experience. In the evenings, after working on my field, I enjoy walking through the community garden. It’s inspiring to see others cultivating different crops and vegetables, and it often gives me new ideas. I’m also amazed by how people turn their small plots of land into their personal amusement parks, with flowers, BBQ tables, and kids’ playgrounds.
One evening, I invited a friend to visit my garden, and we were simply taking a walk through the garden. We stayed on the small walkway beside the plots, being mindful not to intrude on anyone’s personal space. I also gave my friend some onions from my own garden. Out of nowhere, a middle-aged woman started shouting at us in Finnish, accusing us of stealing. She called us thieves, which was completely unfounded. I was so embarrassed, especially in front of my friend. The woman didn’t even take the time to listen when I tried to explain that I have my own plot there and that I was growing my own vegetables.
It was such a hurtful experience. The whole situation was uncomfortable for both of us. Gardening and farming are supposed to be enjoyable, peaceful activities, but how am I supposed to feel when my neighbors verbally attack me like that?